Confessions of a (Not So) Lovely Girl

How my inner critic stole Christmas.

If you’re beating yourself up because you think you should be able to sail through the holiday season with more grace, less stress and less frenzy, this podcast should make you feel better.

With a little humor and not that much exaggeration, Cathy reveals her “Lovely Girl”, the inner tyrant who lives in her head and shows up every year to suck the joy out of Christmas. You might recognize her.

Think of this podcast as “at least I’m not that bad” therapy.

You can find an adapted transcript of this episode here, on my blog, Field Notes.

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Cathy Jacob

I'm Cathy Jacob. I am a writer, coach and co-founder of Fire Inside Leadership. After two decades of coaching leaders on how to inspire while navigating the challenges of demanding careers and lives, I’ve created this site to share the best of what I’ve learned from my courageous clients and leaders in the fields of psychology, leadership, philosophy and neuroscience on what it takes to live an inspired life.

2 Comments

  1. Gina N Brown on December 18, 2022 at 1:58 pm

    What a wonderful and funny seasonal story! For those of us who bounce between the inner LG critic in our head, and the keener Christmas host/guest, we know perfection is just a concept that appears only in a faraway place called Shangri-la. Yet we try, year after year.
    Why, two days ago, I was rushing to bake shortbread cookies while pleading with a chat bot online to fix a computer issue before my next meeting. Guess what? I forgot to verify the oven temp (yes, LG, I should have double checked). The result? Let’s just say instead of beautiful shortbread cooked to golden perfection, the hue was more burnt toast brown. Sigh.
    With this post, it was fun to hover 10,000 feet above someone else’s life to see first-hand how funny/silly we are to allow inner tyrants to push us so hard at this time of year.

    Thanks Cathy, and happy holidays to all!

    • Cathy Jacob on December 18, 2022 at 2:51 pm

      Thanks, Gina! Love this story. I wonder how many other LG stories are out there! IF you have one, please leave it here!

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